When you find that one person who connects you to the world, you become someone different. Someone better. Someone yourself. That is when you really know that you have found your soulmate. The ONE. But, is there really something like the ONE?? A true soulmate?? The one who is meant to be?? There has been a lot of thought that i have put into these questions in recent days. Love. The definition of love has always been contagious. We never define it ourselves. Instead we look for it in books, songs, movies, people around us, their experience, our experience with them. We fail to feel it for ourselves. We just look to satisfy our expectations from what inspired us to be love.
Where am i going? What am i trying to say thereby?? Well, this is just a stupid attempt to make myself clear about certain things. I never really have the habit of reading my blog, and this post will be the last thing that i might want to read.
So, what does this word even mean, "love"? Some say it is sacred...some say it is just fantasy. Funny! It changes from people to people, and it's highly contagious. Lemme say it from my point of view hereon. But it would seem better if i narrate this in second person view.
Most people waste time looking for a perfect lover; while i believe, perfect love has to be created...not found. And i'm never a fond of love at first sight. Coz i know that no one would fall for me in the first place. Here is the other thing, if all you want is just a cute girl who is willing.., and if you are flexible on that cute factor, you could fall in love anytime...all the time. But it doesn't go that way for me. Love should be dateless. Unchanged forever. If beauty is the only reason which made you fall in love, then there are many a chances that it could fade away in course of time. So, no love at first sight? Then how would i know that i have found my love? The answer is fairly simple. You would know it when it happens. It feels magical. You will get the desire to love a person with many among your friends, especially when the walls of friendship are slowly coming down. But that magic is a very rare happening. Maybe only once. And when that happens, you just couldn't control yourself. Just wanting to burst out all the love that you saved. It's like how they say, 'When your dreams have finally come true...then comes the best part.., you get to go find a new dream!' Its something similar to, 'the journey to find true love ends...and the journey to cherish true love begins'.
But the sad part is, when you are the only one in that relationship. Being half of a whole. Its like you are overflowing unconditionally but from the other end you don't receive any...or doesn't want to..or receive any. Even worse, if they chose to ignore it totally. Everything can't be blamed to fate. Infact there is no such thing as fate. Nothing in this world is ever meant to be. So does that mean that we could easily change? Switch partners? "Better" and "Choice" are the most evilest words in the world. Especially when you start to confuse them with life and love. One can always find something better than the other. But that would appear as the most dumbest thing if we keep looking for betterment. And when it comes to choice...it always leads to confusion. We always tend to compare when we have a choice. And comparing in a relationship is utter bullshit. Not able to move on wholly, and not able to disrespect the love that you had.., the only option left is, to live a half life. Hell i don't have any other answer for this.
I'd like to end with a quote,
"They say there's always someone in a relationship who loves more. Oh God i wish it wasn't me."
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